Caring about what other people think is a game Pitfall, caring too much about what other people think does not contribute to a better society. It has the opposite effect. Every day that you live this way you are drained. You're not the best version of yourself and you're not making your personal life or anyone else's better. Think about it every day. Most people are driving down the road alone with everyone else honking at each other. They're frustrated in their lives because they're not taking care of themselves. They're living out their days as a subpar version of themselves. They get drained throughout the day until they come home exhausted only to sleep and repeat the cycle the next day. They fit into all of the boxes and do what others expect of them caring what others think. And then they get into their cars and they honk at each other. They're people, pleasers, and hypocrites, at the same time. That is not healthy. You need to stop honking at people you need to stop being a people pleaser. You need to stop living for others. It's not healthy and it is hurting your game.